CHRISTIAN SINGLE WOMEN
Dating Doesn’t Have to Feel Hopeless, Scary, Frustrating, or Complicated
Thrive while Single
Feel Confident Dating God’s Way
End Unhealthy Dating Patterns
Move Past Trauma and Heartbreak
Prepare for a God-Honoring Relationship
Date Well program hosts, Sloane Wilson and Caitlin Zick
Imagine if you could…
✔ Feel confident navigating today’s dating “norms”
✔ Find freedom from toxic dating patterns that hold you back
✔ Break free from shame and feel secure in your identity
✔ Learn relational tools that honor you, your partner, and God
✔ Heal from heartbreak and find courage to try again
✔ Thrive while single instead of feeling like it’s a curse
WHAT IS DATE WELL?
Welcome to Date Well,
a 12-Week Mentorship Journey for Single Women
In our interactions with our 150,000 followers on Instagram, we’ve heard it all.
We’ve received message after message from single Christian women…
⚪ “What’s wrong with me? Why am I still single?”
“Are there actually any Godly men out there?”
“Dating is so overwhelming… I feel so lost.”
“Should I even trust men?”
“What do I do with my sex drive when single?”
“How can I overcome my past trauma?”
“Does ‘the one’ even exist?”
“I have been single for years. I feel stuck!”
“I feel like I’m being left behind.”
If you can relate to any of the above… girlfriend, we get it.
Modern dating as a Christian can be vulnerable, messy, and confusing. But here’s what no one tells you: It doesn’t have to be.
Developing a healthy, God-centered dating life takes practical steps, resilience, and a whole lot of Jesus. Especially when you want to honor God with your relationships, but it seems like you’re attracting all the wrong men, or not attracting them at all. We understand the struggle and want to walk with you as you navigate this unique and often unpredictable season of your life.
That’s why we created Date Well: A Path Wholeness & Dating.
Our team has created tools intentionally focused on how to Date Well by blending a holistic, step-by-step approach to wholeness in Christ, no matter your relationship status: single or dating.
Date Well is a vibrant community of women, all working through a curated collection of video guides, experiencing regular support and encouragement, getting questions answered during live interactive calls with Cait & Sloane, and more.
Unlike what you’ve probably experienced before, our team has a “no topic is off limits” standard. All the conversations that seem too “taboo” in the church, we’ve made a point to address. From masturbation and porn addictions, to personal purpose and creating vision for your future marriage… from putting yourself out there, to setting physical and emotional boundaries in relationships… We’re going there.
Our heart for each and every woman here is that you learn to thrive in the season you are in today, while also learning how to do relationships well with God, yourself, and others.
Are you ready for a fresh start? We’d love to have you!
– Cait, Alley, and Sloane
WHO IS IT FOR?
Date Well is Designed
for Two Types of Women…
Single Women
Wanting To Get Ready and Start Dating
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✔ You feel lost when it comes to dating
✔ You wonder if something is wrong with you
✔ You struggle being content while single
✔ You want to know your triggers and heal from trauma
✔ You’re ready for a fresh start in dating
✔ You want to be your best self for your future relationship
✔ It’s hard (and scary!) to trust men with your heart
✔ You want to use this season to prepare for the next
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You’re constantly wondering why you’re not getting dates (or the ones you want)
Dating Women
Wanting To Improve Their Relationship
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✔ You wonder if you’re doing relationships the right way
✔ You want to invite God into your relationships more
✔ You keep attracting the wrong types of guys
✔ You want to break the negative patterns in your love life
✔ You want to honor God with your body and sex drive
✔ You’re losing hope for marriage
✔ You want tools to help build a happy, healthy relationship
✔ You feel the courage to work through past pain that’s affected your dating life
WHAT’S INCLUDED?
Gain Confidence & Practical Advice
Along Your Journey
from Single to Spouse
Learn and apply our unique approach to whole-hearted dating and relationships while thriving in a community of supportive women on the same journey
01.
VIDEO TRAINING
A Guided Dating Journey
Gain access to a library of coaching videos from top relationship experts, clinical psychologists, therapists, and trusted pastors on topics such as identify, dating, sex, and marriage prep, organized in an easy-to-digest, week-by-week format.
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RELEVANT GUIDANCE
"Hot Topic" Videos
Browse an ever-growing catalog of 5-10 minute videos covering topics relevant to the modern challenges of dating such as living together, sex, porn, masturbation, where to start with online dating, and whether guys and girls can really be friends.
03.
ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS
Live Calls
Jump on live calls with Sloane, Caitlin, or special guests to ask your burning questions, get support and encouragement, and get guidance as you navigate the complex world of dating.
04.
ACTION-ORIENTED
Intentional Soul Work
We’ve learned that in order to get information from our heads to our hearts, it takes intentionality and action. That’s why we’ve designed homework for each session that pushes you out of your comfort zone, connects you to Jesus, and helps you better understand the “why” behind what you believe.
05.
ENCOURAGEMENT
A Private Community
Sometimes being single can create an illusion that we’re completely alone… Which is why we created the Date Well Community! Connect, meet with, and learn from dozens of other like-minded women in Date Well to find additional support and clarity. It’s a private, safe place to be real, ask for help, and grow on your dating journey together!
WHAT’S THE PROCESS?
Discover the Step-by-Step Strategies to Date Well
The Date Well program is broken into
five core areas to address the most common issues that surface in dating and relationships.
01.
Identity
When our identity is confidently rooted in Jesus, we build a steady foundation for a healthy relationship to stand on. Before we focus on pursuing external relationships, we’ll focus on what matters most: your relationship with yourself and God.
⚫ Understand Who God Made YOU to be
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Align Your Life with Biblical Core Values
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Address the Lies From Your Past
⚫ Discover How to Love Yourself
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Trust
Trauma, failed expectations, and painful past relationships can blur our image of God and His faithfulness. The reality is, trust is the backbone of any and every relationship. Without trust, you can’t move forward. We’ll work together to help you build or rebuild your trust in God, yourself, and even men.
⚫ Engage in Healthy and Authentic Relationships
⚫ Overcome Your Upbringing and Past Trauma
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Repent, Forgive, and Trust Again
03.
Vision
When you think of marriage, what comes to mind? What about dating or singleness? Our mental images shape the narratives surrounding our single and dating journeys. If our view is filled with negativity, it’s impossible to hope for the opposite. Remember, scripture says “without vision, people perish.” You must build and pursue a new vision for the right relationship.
⚫ Create a Healthy Vision for Marriage
⚫ Create a Thrilling Vision for Your Life and Mate
04.
Dating Mindset
Just because something feels “normal” doesn’t mean it is. An unhealthy “normal” results in us repeating toxic relationship cycles. This isn’t our fault though. Culture has been feeding us lies for years. That’s why we must renew our minds, understand our season, and uncover the lies.
⚫ Mastering the Art of Attraction
⚫ Prosper Despite an Over-Sexualized “Hookup” Culture or Over-Religious Rule-Based Culture
⚫ Define Your Relational Preferences and Standards
⚫ Understand and Relate With Men
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Dating Strategy
A healthy dating life or relationship doesn’t just “happen.” It takes intentionality, work, and a perspective and mindset that can sustain a successful relationship. We get that isn’t easy, but we’ll equip you with all the tips and tricks to not only survive, but thrive in the season you’re in.
⚫ Initiate Dates Without Stepping on His Toes
⚫ Set (and Enforce!) Physical and Emotional Boundaries
⚫ Heal From Past Heartbreaks
⚫ Maintain Hope in the Midst of Singleness
⚫ Know When You’re Ready for Marriage
BONUS SESSION
"The Sex Talk You Never Had"
Join Caitlin and her husband of 15 years, Cole, for a raw and honest conversation about the science of sex and how it impacts you chemically, physically, and emotionally. Gain fresh insight into why prioritizing purity is so critical, no matter your age, relational status, or past history.
WHAT’S THE RESULT?
Date Well is designed to help you…
✔ Live a fulfilled life regardless if you’re single or in a relationship
✔ Embrace dating without fear of rejection
✔ Navigate dating with a community of like-minded women
✔ Heal from your past so it doesn’t dictate your future relationships
✔ Stop settling for second-best in relationships
✔ Learn how to genuinely love who God created you to be
✔ Attract the men you want to date and go for it
✔ Heal from broken paradigms that influence your dating decisions
✔ Understand your God-given purpose and how to pursue it
✔ Gain vision for God-centered, healthy relationships and marriage
✔ Understand God’s design for sexuality
✔ Live a fulfilled life regardless if you’re single or in a relationship
MEET YOUR HOSTS
We’ve Been Where You Are…
And Where You Want to Be
With years of singleness, dating, heartbreak, engagement, and marriage under their belts, and with experience helping others through those seasons, Date Well co-hosts Caitlin and Sloane share their journeys vulnerably and with full exposure. Shameless, but empowered and free, they know firsthand how complex the pre-marriage season can be.
Sloane Wilson
Offering empowering encouragement from the perspective of a dating 25-year-old
With years of singleness, messy relationships, and heartbreak under her belt, Sloane’s learned firsthand how important it is to have someone in your corner, especially when it comes to dating. She wholeheartedly believes that at the core of every healthy dating journey is a community that fights for, believes in, and points one another to Jesus. As a 25-year-old navigating God, purity, and the present culture herself, she gets how hard it can be to find your “people.” That’s why she pours her heart into building the Date Well community! Sloane’s been in ministry for more than five years and currently helps oversee the singles and dating portion of Moral Revolution.
Alley Vallotton
Offering the understanding of a recently married 28 year old.
Alley was born and raised in Los Angeles, California. She grew up with a deep love for the Lord and always had a desire to see people walk in purity and live in the fullness of relationship they were created for. This passion led her to move to Redding Ca after graduating from college to attend Bethel School of Supernatural Ministry. Though once a big-city girl, she’s always been a small-town girl at heart and now lives in Redding Ca with her husband, Elijah. She previously went on a journey of learning how to date well and now hopes to uncomplicate the pursuit of healthy relationships, purity, and marriage for men by sharing honestly and vulnerably about what it is women really want.
Caitlin Zick
Offering the “big picture vision,” drawing on the wisdom gained from her 15 years of marriage
Caitlin had a profound moment at the age of 16 where God called her out of a crowd. Her life was forever changed. She discovered her years of trauma in back seats, dark movie theaters and in-between the sheets would take her more years to get out of than it did to get into. She is passionate about turning up the truth in a culture that is drowning in lies. In a world that deems sex as casual, she shares the story of how it was more like a casualty to her soul before her journey to healing and freedom. Caitlin and her husband are the directors of Moral Revolution and share their marriage story of the not-so-picture-perfect honeymoon or first years of sexual bliss to start a healthy conversation and begin to unfold God’s design of sex. They have been married and in ministry for 15 years and have four children.
Date Well Offers Guidance From Top Relationship Experts, Clinical Psychologists, Therapists, and Trusted Pastors
GET IMMEDIATE ACCESS
Join Date Well for just $297
Choose a one-time payment or payment plan
Includes 12 core video sessions, an ever-growing catalog of “Hot Topic” videos to navigate the modern challenges of dating, live calls to answer your unfiltered questions, and a thriving Date Well Community of other like-minded women to support & encourage you.
PAY-IN-FULL
$297
Single Payment
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PAYMENT PLAN
$24.75
For 12 Months
Payment plan offered. Just select “Monthly credit card payments" or "Shop Pay" under "Payment"
We are so confident that Date Well is THE program for Christian single and dating women like you… that we want to make it as easy as possible for you to say “YES!” That’s why we are boldly offering you our “Date Well Guarantee.” Take a full 14 days to work through some of the trainings, attend a live call to get your questions answered, watch some Hot Topic videos that are relevant to your journey, and connect with others in Date Well Community… and if you don’t feel more equipped, encouraged, and empowered to thrive in your singleness and gain clarity on how to pursue a healthy relationship God’s way… Let us know and we will give you a full refund.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
Wondering if Date Well is right for you?
